I'm Malinda, and
I want to spend my life
talking about death.

ABOUT

I’m a compassionate and dedicated writer who believes in the importance of candid conversations around death. I see it as one of the greatest acts of love we can show one another—whether by sharing our end-of-life wishes or offering a listening ear to someone who is grieving. Both in-person and on the page, I advocate for what I call a “good death.”My background includes studying death and dying at universities in the US and Ireland, caring for individuals at home to ensure they could pass peacefully in their own surroundings, and working in healthcare at a Level 1 trauma hospital, where the fragility of life was a daily reminder. I’ve experienced firsthand the profound difficulty that comes when wishes are unknown or time slips away before the important things are said.After saying the hardest of goodbyes to both of my parents, I invited grief into my life as if it were the most noble of dinner guests—sitting with it, listening, and learning from it—in hopes that I could one day hold space for others when they need it most.From attending death cafes to hosting grief dinner parties, I continue to explore death, develop a deeper understanding, and build community with others who are either in mourning or “death curious.”I currently write about grief, sympathy, and remembrance for publications like Harry & David, 1-800-Flowers, and Edible Columbus, as well as for funeral homes and individuals seeking help to express heartfelt tributes and memories.

Welcome. I'm glad you're here.

Here are a few ways I can offer support:

  • Sympathy and Memorial Content: Thoughtfully crafted pieces for your website or blog that offer grief support, guidance, and honor to the individuals you serve.

  • Pre-Need Planning Guides: Clear and compassionate guides for families considering pre-need arrangements, empowering them to make informed choices with confidence.

  • Obituaries and Tributes: Personalized, respectful tributes that reflect the life and legacy of each individual, created with sensitivity and care.

  • Educational Resources on Deathcare: Articles or informational resources that gently guide families through the deathcare process, helping them understand their options and make decisions comfortably.

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Contact

If you’re a funeral director, grief educator, or someone navigating loss, I’m here to help you find the words that honor, remember, and bring comfort. Whether you need assistance with obituaries, tributes, or grief-related content, I’m available to listen and work with you to create meaningful, compassionate writing. Please feel free to reach out with any questions or ideas—I’d be honored to support you in this delicate work.